Many men who are dating for the first time after 10 or 15 years of marriage to the same women may not be aware of something called the inner marriage. You have both a feminine side and a masculine side. Is your inner feminine wounded? Is your inner masculine wounded? A course I took in self development talked about the marriage of the divine feminine and masculine.
To enter into relationship with another is to seek their essence, or truth. Yet most of us, very quickly loose that ability to relate and seek the truth of our partner; we are too busy seeking to be right for ourselves. Truth has many faces being right has one very rigid one, allowing room for no one else. We must be very careful in our relationship with all; do we seek truth or to be right? By Kimberly Goodenough
There are some people that are looking for a relationship with a divorced woman for shelter, have you considered cultivating a relationship to awaken you where you are asleep? If you are looking for a relationship that calls these qualities within you to be present: gentleness, courage, humor, patience, generosity and your ability to forgive the past, then you are on the road to finding a true love. I was told by a relationship expert who counsels married couples that of the married couples that exist, only 10% of them have a mutually respectful and loving relationship. What this means is the cultivating consciousness in relationship will take a lot of commitment and money to see a marriage counselor to resolve issues when they come up. In our society, it is still not cool for a man while dating to be seeking counseling.
I think it is important if you are going to invest money on dining and wining women to find the right life time companion to also be bold and ask if her FICO score is over 680. If she is honest with you and tells you she is interested in improving her credit rating. Refer her to lexingtonlaw.com. If she is willing to fix credit report errors and remove charge offs and you see her take action. It is wise to continue cultivating this courtship. If she gets angry with you for asking her about her finances, then you know it may not be worth the investment in time to get involved with someone who is unconscious with her finances. Because chances are if she doesn’t want to fact those issues there are other issues she doesn’t want to face and probably the reason why she is divorced in the first place.
Intimate relationship while you are dating divorced women is possible. Here are some recommendations you may want to try:
Don’t wait more than 2 weeks after your first date to suggest the second meeting or date. Be upfront and tell her you like her, if you suggest a second outing, if she is interested she will let you know. If she is evasive when you tell her that you are willing to see her, than she is not the right women for you.
Put Your first foot forward when you both meet for the first time. Show up after you have showered and smell clean. Don’t go see her after you have just worked out at the gym and still haven’t showered. Communicate real interest to her. Be honest and say you had a good time and that you would like to meet again. On the same note, if you were set up for a blind date and you know there is no way you can see yourself being with this women, be honest as well as say thank you for your time but express in gentle way that you are not interested. There is no sense wasting both of your time.
Dating Divorced Women Have You Healed The Divine Feminine
Dating Divorced Women Have You Healed The Divine Feminine
