Let’s face it: your life has been on hold ever since the breakup. You think about your boyfriend all of the time, wondering what he is doing and if he is really moving on. You mourn the loss of your life and everything you thought it would be. Thoughts of how to fix your relationship and making him love you again are constantly running through your head. And you know if you could just get him to listen to you that you’d be able to get your boyfriend back and then you could move on to the happy future the two of you always dreamed about.
But even with all of the wishing and hoping, you seem to be no closer today to getting your boyfriend back than you were the first day after the breakup. How can you fix your relationship and make him love you again when the only thing that seems to be happening is arguing and avoidance?
Well, the first step to getting your boyfriend back fast is to stop the arguing. You aren’t solving anything by dragging up every bad moment that happened every time you talk to him. That goes for him too — if you start talking to him and he starts to argue, it is time to end the conversation. Then, from that moment on, promise yourself that you will stop every conversation on a good note.
How do you do this? If you really want to fix your relationship and make him love you again, you need to promise yourself that you will make every conversation from here on out be a positive, up beat interaction. If you usually start arguing after 10 minutes, then stop the conversation after 9 minutes. Don’t let anything the two of you do together go that far. If you stop the conversations on happy notes, you will always leave him wanting more instead of leaving him wanting to hang up on you.
What will this do? If you want to get your boyfriend back fast, taking this approach will help him to see that you can have a great relationship again, that your interactions aren’t always about the past and what went wrong. Plus, it will make him want to call you and come back to you, instead of pushing your farther away. How do you make sure that every interaction you have with him is happy and lighthearted? Watch this video and you’ll know exactly what to say and do every time you talk to him!